Live the life you TRULY want
Leadership and personal development trainer + coach
“There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you.” – Maya Angelou
I started this journey because I have a dream – to see every one of you breaking out of your own boundaries, fully accepting yourselves for who you are, and living the life that you TRULY want.
The reason is simple; I believe in a connectedness in humanity, and your happiness is as important as mine.
I look towards the day when you embrace yourself and unleash your fullest potentials to live a courageously extraordinary life.
Some of you hold dreams that you want to fulfill deep inside but end up not doing them because you fear what you could end up "losing". Eventually, you create a well of remorse and regret for what could have been a "better" life lived. The guilt and disappointment are difficult to swallow and painful to experience. The question that hijacks your mind is, "Why didn't I trust myself enough and truly went for what I want?"
It doesn't have to be that way. If you are willing to change your beliefs, you can change your life now. You can take active steps to live your dream life, starting from TODAY.
When we fully accept ourselves, we can then embrace what we truly want
I empathise with how you feel at this juncture of your life.
In 2014, I was still working as a corporate training consultant and results coach for an international financial institution in Singapore. With almost
10 years of experience working in the learning and development industry with various multinational corporations, I was skyrocketting my way to a successful career, a respectable job title and a decent salary that could fuel a comfortable lifestyle.
That was when I started shopping for private condominiums that I could purchase in the city centre of Singapore. It was the natural progression of a corporate yuppie and I should feel incredibly happy.
On the contrary, I felt overwhelming sadness that my life was going down this path. That was when I paused for a moment, jumped off the threadmill (that never stopped going) and asked myself if that was what I really wanted.
I asked myself the following defining question that changed my life forever - Would I be happy spending all my savings on a swanky new apartment, get myself into a huge mortgage debt that will take me the rest of my lifetime clearing, my only joy being to sip expensive wine on the balcony of my new home after being totally drained from another long day at work?
Or would I be happier going for what I know would truly make me happy - exploring new grounds, interacting with new people, feeling the wind in my hair and living a life engulfed with freedom, creation, discovery, love and connection?"
I knew I wanted the latter. But the idea of making a change scared me so much. I felt I had too much to give up. I mean, who gives up their good careers in their 30s?! In addition, I had lived my own childhood bounded by self-limiting beliefs as a result of abuse and difficult family relationships. I had never truly believed that I was capable of making my dreams come true and if I really deserved them at all.
However, I made the choice that I am worthy of what I want. And who said I couldn't achieve phenomenal results, especially when it's the path I TRULY want?
So I decided to do it. I made the choice to face my fear and went with what I desired. I didn't feel ready. I would never feel ready. But I knew if
I didn't change my actions, my results would always be the same.
I quit my job, sold my car and stuff, travelled through South America, lived in Argentina for a year and a half, was a full time Tango dancer for a whole year, trotted to countless new countries and cities I had yet explored then in Latin America and Europe, and started this today with the vision of empowering people to embrace who they truly are and live extraordinary lives with no regrets.
I now live my dream life where I am the architect designing the life I want (yippie!) instead of letting external factors dictate how I should lead my life. I choose projects that entice me. I spend time in cities that I desire exploring more. I work towards my dream of having an international clientele and impact as many people as I can ever imagine. I allow the free spirit in me to blossom with age, instead of going with the popular belief that the reverse should happen.
Most importantly, I've learnt that I can do anything I desire and achieve my highest level of success when
I FULLY EMBRACE, LOVE AND ACCEPT ALL PARTS OF ME FOR WHO I AM.
When we remove our self-limiting beliefs and fully embrace ourselves for who we are, magic happens.
And you can achieve whatever you want truly want too, simply because you can.
Remember, every step matters. But nothing happens unless you start now.
How can I support you in your journey to having the life you have always desired?
Click here to connect with me and let's start talking!
I started this journey because I have a dream – to see every one of you breaking out of your own boundaries, fully accepting yourselves for who you are, and living the life that you TRULY want.
The reason is simple; I believe in a connectedness in humanity, and your happiness is as important as mine.
I look towards the day when you embrace yourself and unleash your fullest potentials to live a courageously extraordinary life.
Some of you hold dreams that you want to fulfill deep inside but end up not doing them because you fear what you could end up "losing". Eventually, you create a well of remorse and regret for what could have been a "better" life lived. The guilt and disappointment are difficult to swallow and painful to experience. The question that hijacks your mind is, "Why didn't I trust myself enough and truly went for what I want?"
It doesn't have to be that way. If you are willing to change your beliefs, you can change your life now. You can take active steps to live your dream life, starting from TODAY.
When we fully accept ourselves, we can then embrace what we truly want
I empathise with how you feel at this juncture of your life.
In 2014, I was still working as a corporate training consultant and results coach for an international financial institution in Singapore. With almost
10 years of experience working in the learning and development industry with various multinational corporations, I was skyrocketting my way to a successful career, a respectable job title and a decent salary that could fuel a comfortable lifestyle.
That was when I started shopping for private condominiums that I could purchase in the city centre of Singapore. It was the natural progression of a corporate yuppie and I should feel incredibly happy.
On the contrary, I felt overwhelming sadness that my life was going down this path. That was when I paused for a moment, jumped off the threadmill (that never stopped going) and asked myself if that was what I really wanted.
I asked myself the following defining question that changed my life forever - Would I be happy spending all my savings on a swanky new apartment, get myself into a huge mortgage debt that will take me the rest of my lifetime clearing, my only joy being to sip expensive wine on the balcony of my new home after being totally drained from another long day at work?
Or would I be happier going for what I know would truly make me happy - exploring new grounds, interacting with new people, feeling the wind in my hair and living a life engulfed with freedom, creation, discovery, love and connection?"
I knew I wanted the latter. But the idea of making a change scared me so much. I felt I had too much to give up. I mean, who gives up their good careers in their 30s?! In addition, I had lived my own childhood bounded by self-limiting beliefs as a result of abuse and difficult family relationships. I had never truly believed that I was capable of making my dreams come true and if I really deserved them at all.
However, I made the choice that I am worthy of what I want. And who said I couldn't achieve phenomenal results, especially when it's the path I TRULY want?
So I decided to do it. I made the choice to face my fear and went with what I desired. I didn't feel ready. I would never feel ready. But I knew if
I didn't change my actions, my results would always be the same.
I quit my job, sold my car and stuff, travelled through South America, lived in Argentina for a year and a half, was a full time Tango dancer for a whole year, trotted to countless new countries and cities I had yet explored then in Latin America and Europe, and started this today with the vision of empowering people to embrace who they truly are and live extraordinary lives with no regrets.
I now live my dream life where I am the architect designing the life I want (yippie!) instead of letting external factors dictate how I should lead my life. I choose projects that entice me. I spend time in cities that I desire exploring more. I work towards my dream of having an international clientele and impact as many people as I can ever imagine. I allow the free spirit in me to blossom with age, instead of going with the popular belief that the reverse should happen.
Most importantly, I've learnt that I can do anything I desire and achieve my highest level of success when
I FULLY EMBRACE, LOVE AND ACCEPT ALL PARTS OF ME FOR WHO I AM.
When we remove our self-limiting beliefs and fully embrace ourselves for who we are, magic happens.
And you can achieve whatever you want truly want too, simply because you can.
Remember, every step matters. But nothing happens unless you start now.
How can I support you in your journey to having the life you have always desired?
Click here to connect with me and let's start talking!